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When it’s time for you to share your first intimate moment with an online honey you might think that the sex will be mediocre, because the two of you might be a bit nervous or unfamiliar with one another. This is to be expected since you may not know what she likes and or doesn’t like.
But if you continue to follow my advice, she’ll be so amazed by your first impression that she’ll want it more and often!
First Time
When it comes time to meet your online honey for the first time, your primary objective must be to satisfy her every need. The absolute last thing you want to do is pump her while she stares back at you with a blank stare or checks the clock over your shoulder.
It is obvious that your first impression counts a great deal when you have sex with someone for the first time. No matter how long you’ve been seeing her, the first time must still be viewed spectacularly, remember this you aren’t a naïve 17 year old anymore. You’ve gotta set your standards high, you gotta please her or she won’t return for more. So here’s what you gotta do.
Embrace Spontaneity
You gotta make sure you are clean, showered, groomed, and ready to go at anytime. No woman, at least no smoking hot woman, will want to have sex with you when you smell like fish.
So before you leave the house, take a shower, shave or trim those pubic hairs, scrub your anal crack, brush your teeth and tongue, and for heaven's sake, change your boxer briefs. Nobody what’s to see your Hershey streak.
Grooming is also important. Don't forget to put on that fresh smelling underarm deodorant. A little gel or mousse in your hair and a splash of summer cologne wouldn't hurt either (not too much cologne, you don’t want to give her a headache). Try to avoid colognes that cost less than $30; they usually end up smelling like a bouquet of freshly picked flowers right after a dog urinated on them. All this preparation is common sense, but this type of preparation separates the men from the boys.
Know Where to go
If you're a businessman, you know the three most important decisions you could ever make are location, location and location. Well, guess what? The same applies to making love.
Sure, having spur-of-the-moment sex is very erotic and can be very pleasing. The same applies to having sex in public places. But, remember you aren’t trying to have a quickie with this hottie. If you are going to have sex with a new partner for the first time, you definitely want to do it in an environment that allows you to fully market your skills and one that encourages long lasting sex rather than quickies.
So before inviting her back to your place, make sure the bedroom is tidy, the sheets are freshly laundered, candles are available and ready to be lit, and no foul odors are floating in the air. If you have roommates…send them out to drinks!
Set the Mood Right
One thing that will always help set the mood for some long lasting and sweaty sex is, the right music. Dip into your imagination a bit when selecting the right playlist. I am going to guarantee you that she has heard all the Maxwell, Barry White, or Marvin Gaye she needs to hear. These songs tell her what your intentions are too soon.
When selected correctly, the right music embodies the full power of seduction. The secret is to play rare music that she will not recognize and that does not sound like the soundtrack to Indecent Proposal. I recommend tribal music or electronic jazz, without any vocals. The last thing you need is another man's voice singing in the background about how he's going to make his woman feel real good.
You need music with rhythm that will set your minds in a total trance. Tribal music has the reputation of putting both partners on the same wavelength. It also gives both partners a lasting rhythm that actually prolongs the whole experience.
Kiss Her Right, then…
Most women will decide if they will sleep with a man based on his kissing abilities. Think of the kiss as your sales pitch. You have to get her attention, keep her hooked and close the sale. A nice, soft, passionate and sexy kiss will always get a woman's imagination going. Don't make the mistake of kissing for too long, making it too wet and lacking variety. Don't force your tongue into her mouth. Instead, relax your lips; the softer they are, the more sensuous the kiss. Let her invite your tongue in with her own.
Then you need to deliver unforgettable foreplay, and of course, the moment of truth. But before you get to penetration (or gettin yours) you’ve gotta get her to reach an orgasm. Women need a much longer foreplay than men. Start by whispering sweet words in her ear and fondling her all over her body, but not in the genital area.
Be sensitive, all the time, to what she likes and what she wants to hear. Do not fondle the genital area until she is ready (use lubricating gel, which you can buy in a drug store). You need to have patience. She may not get an orgasm until after 20 minutes or more. And sometimes it will not work, even if you do everything right. You need to be willing to change things up. Finger her, fondle her, and definitely go down on her. Make her feel like she’s the only woman on Earth.
Most women will not achieve an orgasm through an ordinary genital sexual intercourse. And men often are tired after their orgasm. Because of this, it may be best to ensure that the woman has an orgasm before the man. She will still be excited afterwards, and will want you more and more.
Remember that women enjoy the nearness and intimacy, the fondling and the feeling of love and desire. So cater to her needs, because I promise you that if you follow all of the above suggestions during your first sexual encounter, she will be begging for more…and you will be there to give it to her, every time!
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